Who Am I Becoming? A Hard Look at My Habits

This week, I found myself asking a hard but honest question:

“What kind of person are my habits shaping me into?”

Not “What do I want to be,” or “What am I doing with my life,” but something deeper:

Who am I actually becoming—right now—because of my daily choices?

I’ve realized something I didn’t want to admit:
I’m becoming more distracted. More digitally dependent. More emotionally disconnected.

Not because of a crisis or moral collapse.
But because of small, seemingly harmless distractions…
— Scrolling through reels before bed
— Playing “just one more level” of a game
— Checking messages while my kids want my attention
— Numbing out instead of showing up

These aren’t sins. But they are forming me.

Small habits matter

In this week’s blog post, I unpack the quiet danger of distraction—and the grace-filled path back to presence and purpose.

👉 Read: “Who Am I Becoming?”

👉 Listen to the podcast now

Key Takeaway:
You don’t need a life overhaul to get back on track.
Just one intentional step.

Here’s what I did:

Deleted a couple of social apps

Restarted my exercise rhythm—even if not 100%

Made myself accountable to someone I deeply respect

Action for You This Week:

1. Ask yourself honestly: “Who am I becoming?”
2. Pray the prayer in the blog (or make it your own).
3. Share your intention with someone who can hold you accountable.

You’re not alone. And you’re not stuck.

Grace is real. Change is possible.
And presence—deep, soul-filled presence—is still available.

Let’s walk this road together.